#161 Waiting on a break in the clouds.. With Sassy




I met a man I didn't know that asked me how are you doing,
Shoulda just said fine cause it's all he wanted to hear,
But for reasons unknown in a sorrowful tone I said,
Man it's been a hell of a year, and I don't really know where I'm going,
And I might just be hanging around.


and I don't really know where I'm going,
And I might just be hanging around,
If life's shades of gray,
Then I guess you could say.
That I've been waiting for a break in the clouds

Waiting for a break in the clouds.. don't know where I am going.. just hanging around..

Destination: The Trace

Dress -~Sassy!~ Endless Summer

Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 05
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair -TRUTH Devina - Champagne
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman

#160 If you close your eyes at Hazardous.. (I can still see you)


I was left to my own devices
Many days fell away with nothing to show..

And the walls kept tumbling down

But if you close your eyes,
Does it almost feel like
Nothing's changed at all?

And if you close your eyes,
Does it almost feel like
You've been here before?

How am I gonna be an optimist about this?
How am I gonna be an optimist about this?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F90Cw4l-8NY (Take a listen and look at pic)

For more information about this fantastic destination please come take a visit to:
 
Destination: Hazardous

Dress - Tram -scallop dress(Mesh)[pink]- S
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 05
Eyes - .ID. Mirror / Mesh Eyes / BlueGreen
Hair - ""D!va"" Hair "Kalli"
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman  

#159 Now this is living with Legal Insanity LeLutka, Milk Motion at 'Summerfest 13'


For those of you who wake up in the morning, stretch and put a smile on your face,
Say to yourselves it will get better, and love what you have.. then this is for you.

You are a pleasure seeker. You're a bit of a hedonist, and you enjoy the finer things in life.
You are both unusual and uncompromising. You're an interesting blend of traditional and modern.

You are physically affectionate. You love to hug your friends.
You are able to relate to people on their own level. You are socially adaptable.

For the lovers of beauty, life, nature and love - Please listen to the below music and/or watch video.
Turn up loud!!!



When listening to the above, don't forget to take a journey to our destination below with many fascinating designers and artists showcasing their styles just for you at:


Destination: Summerfest 13

Top - (Milk Motion) cropped tank - Native (from Summerfest) New
Jeans - Legal Insanity - Hefunky Bermuda shorts Cold for Boys and Girls (New)
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 05
Eyes - .ID. Mirror / Mesh Eyes / BlueGreen
Hair - [LeLutka] - ALICE hair
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman



#158 Change springs to mind with Pixelites Inc


This week I decided to mix it up a bit. My weeks have been so hectic of late that the term slowing down is not a verb in my dictionary.

After all, what is the use of coaching staff about managing people's performance when all I seem to be doing of late is saying 'Goodbye' to people as their tears flow and I am the one to say, "I'm sorry we no longer have a job for you as I escort them out the door". No wonder I come onto SL and escape when my world at present is so negative.   I so hate my job sometimes, working in Human Resources, managing transitions, people, listening to their complaints, listening to their whines. I don't think I have had a happy day for about two weeks.. So does that mean I need a change? Perhaps...or maybe I just need to do something different afterwards.

In saying the above though,  I love routine. Love it. I love the tried and true methods that work well.
I often tell people about how fantastic routine can be. I extol the virtues of boundaries.
 Yet, I was not always such a person, was I? While never exactly intrepid, I was once a little adventurous, wasn't I?   Well, suffice to say, a breath of fresh air was long overdue so I conducted three experiments.  First, I altered my fitness routine. I did the same circuit of exercises in the gym, but I changed the order in which I do them. I wanted to see how I would feel after and what impact the change would have on my workout. I expected to be muddled, do fewer exercises and barely break a sweat.  The surprising result was that I worked harder and finished sooner. I expended more energy in a more efficient way and forgot to think about the bad day/s that I had at work.

Secondly, I tried a different route on a walk I make every day. This change was forced upon me by an unforeseen hitch called child taxi.  But in the spirit of making the best of things and avoiding recriminations, I went with the challenge of taking a different route. The astonishing result was that the new route was quicker. Thirdly, I laid down at night and started watching Game of Thrones, and threw my book to the side.

Taking a different route in life sometimes is good for the soul, so is taking a walk to our fantastic destination below - The Thrift Shop where everything is under $100L.
So what are you waiting for, come take a peek at some awesome designers, and one of them being Pixelites Inc at our destination for today:-


Destination: The Thrift Shop

Outfit - ::PL:: Tangled Webs - Curacoa ($100L) at the Thrift Shop (New)
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 05
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - ::Exile:: Take it off:Rust
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman
Accessory 1 - Bens Beauty ::.. Ecce Earring Gold

Photo taken at Oubliette




 
 

#157 Butterflies and Cupcakes with LivGlam, Legal Insanity and Gos



"Creativity involves breaking out of established patterns in order to look at things in a different way."
- so says Edward De Bono. To me creativity is just loving and living each day and remembering really no matter had bad things can get in life we have each other. We have ourselves and that is what counts.

One thing that gets me through the day is to think of Spring and Summer my favourite two seasons.
 
This deliberate and gradual emanation of spring has taught me to appreciate every aspect of the season for I was able to see each and every petal, to breathe in all the aromas, to hear the raindrops on the leaves. A spring that saunters in with a pause here and there is a spring I can devour with my senses. With a slow emerging spring comes the lesson of patience. Flowers open more slowly. Trees leaf out to the tune of an adagio tempo, sleepily moving forward. As I savoured the gradual pace of spring's materialization, there were times when I was anxious for some aspect of the spring I knew from past years. Taming my yearning for something more quickly taught me to sit back and let nature work in its own time. Now comes the season of summer. After having experienced the moderate pace of spring, I am curious as to how this summer will emerge. Summer is usually hot and dry and somewhat of a rest for this gardener who spends much time preparing the garden in spring. No matter what summer brings it is welcome and a time for relaxing in the shade and watching all the lovely bursts of life in the landscape. Summer brings lazy days  slow rambles by the creek catching a glimpse of butterflies, and early warm mornings listening to birds awaken and stretch through the sky. What does summer mean to you?  For a glimpse into Summer, come take a stroll through 10 years of Second life.



Destination: Amazing Dreamz (SL10)

Dress - [LG] Boutique-[Summer 13] Glina Linen Dress (New)
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 05
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - D!va"" Hair "Chisato" (Cat's eye)
Accessory 1 - Legal Insanity - Sheldon sunglasses - animal (New)
Accessory 2 - Lassitude & Ennui Chunky Silver Necklace
Accessory 3 - [Gos] Lolita Espadrilles - Cupcake (New for Group Members)















#156 The Season warms as I look into the night for you with OrsiniRed and Elephante


One of my favorite authors is a lady by the name of Jean Auel. Some of her amazing creations and stories are based on a women by the name of Ayla and her man - Jondular. This creative fantasy piece from OrsiniRed reminds me of their story which I would like to share with you from this small passage below from the book called:- The Valley of the Horses - Earths Children.

I don't know why I love this authors books so much, maybe it is the two couples wanderings together, their adventure, their love, and sorrows, or perhaps it is simply the talented descriptive words that Jean Auel uses in her book. Whatever the reason, we all love a good book on occasions, and this one I struggle to put down. This eloquent series captures me from the moment I start reading and it takes me away to another time and place. Hope this passage inspires you to pick up one of her books and you feel the thrill like myself which mesmerizes you from the beginning.

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The Season warmed, and, as one day followed the next, Ayla grew tired of travelling, tired of the monotony of the steppes, tired of the unrelenting sun and incessant wind. Her skin roughened, cracked and peeled. Her lips were chapped, her eyes sore, her throat always full of grit. She came across an occasional river valley, greener and more wooded than the steppes, but none tempted her to stay and all were empty of human life.
Though skies were usually clear, her fruitless search cast a shadow of fear and worry. Winter always ruled the land. On the hottest day of summer, the harsh glacial cold was never far from thought. Food had to be stockpiled and protection found to survive the long bitter season. She has been wandering since early Spring and was beginning to wonder if she was doomed to roam the steppes forever - or die after all. (Passage from The Valley of the Horses)

For our destination today, come take an adventure to OrsiniRed and the wonderous poses of Elephante.


Destination: OrsiniRed and Elephante Poses

Outfit - OrsiniSun Outfit Orchid Love Meringue 1
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 05
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - =DeLa*= Boobs Mesh Hair "Scarlett" Blonde 5
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman
Accessory 1 -OrsiniSun Mesh Bracelet Orchid Love
Accessory 2 -  OrsiniSun Necklace Orchid Love

Pose - EP Beautiful 2 -Elephante Poses

#155 A sip to go with Sassy


Sometimes we all need to take a little break and just relax. I hear that said to me quite often. I seem to as people say be often burning the candle at both ends. Whether that be working non stop, or just trying to relax on a day off. With all the plans made for today, I still can't relax. Think it is karma.

My graphics card has decided to give me a major heart ache today and no matter what I do I am finding more problems. That's if it is the graphics card.

Think I have overburdened my friends as well, asking for major help with regards to being IT solutions. Well after spending the whole day on fixing the computer, bring on Mr Pc doctor this weekend and hopefully it will be nothing major just perhaps means am offline for a few days.  (If you know how to help IT problems IM me quickly.. I even have installed the latest graphic driver.. and still crashes when on high)..?

For now though, before the computer freezes again and crashes like it has all day, I would like to finish this blog and invite you to come and take a peek at a gorgeous designer called Sassy. 
Sassy's dresses are perfect for those with how should I say extra padding and implants.
Some of the stunning designs and colours that Sassy has to offer such as the dress I am wearing today comes in the exquisite colour of Fuchsia and many other colours to offer.

So don't delay come take a visit to our destination for today: -

Destination: Sassy

Dress - ~Sassy!~ Simply Ravishing dress - Fuschia (New)
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 05
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - =DeLa*= Boobs Mesh Hair "Scarlett" Blonde 5
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman
Accessory 1 - What Next  - {what next} Garden Cafe Caravan (New)

#154 Here ye Here ye Here ye, It's Designer Showcase time

      

Well today is Monday, You either love it or hate it.  Take a good look at the people around you now. Some will have stayed up all weekend, some will have had an early night, while others are simply buzzing with energy. Most will be moping around, looking tired and bored and mourning the loss of their weekend. 

But fear not, Did you hear the news? I am so excited to tell you. I can hear people saying, What, What's happening? What have I missed?...

 Well it is Designer Showcase time and there are some excellent SL designers just waiting to show you what they have made for you in the world of fashion. Items ridiculously low for Second life and definitely worth the visit today.

Wearing this gorgeous outfit from Sassy at such a low price, and the jewellery from Elemental,
I feel very business like and can't wait to say bring on next weekend. I can almost see it now.

Come take a look at our destination for today: -

Destination: Designer Showcase

Top - ~Sassy!~ Impulsive top ($99L) at the Designer Showcase
Skirt - ~Sassy!~ Impulsive skirt
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 06
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - TRUTH< Bonnie - champagne
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman
Necklace - !Elemental Raquel Pendant - Chrysocolla ($85L from Designer Showcase)
Earings - !Elemental Raquel Earrings - Chrysocolla
 

#153 Fresh waters entice you with LivGlam


You know the old saying, A picture is worth a thousand words.
As humans we are largely responsive to visual cues (pictures) whether we like to admit it or not.
Pictures have the ability to make us feel happy, excited, disgusted, and curious among other things.
We can remember a famous brand just by looking at their image and can even reminisce 10, 20, 30 years into the past to a moment in our lives where we were affected emotionally by a specific event simply by looking at an old picture.  Images can also warn us or give us clues about to what’s to come. Magazines understand the basic nature of human beings and our inability to ignore powerful images.

Images convey emotion about what you are talking about in a powerfully sensory based way and gives additional depth to your content.  Good images create an atmosphere that people want to invoke themselves in and be a part of.  If your visitors can relate to and connect with your images you’ve increased the likelihood that they will return.

This image taken at the awesome location of Neva River, was my capture for today thankyou to a excellent photographer - Lestat Draconia. Wearing this gorgeous bikini from the LivGlam Spring Collection, am curious what does this picture tell you?

For more information come take a visit to our destination for today:-

Destination: Liv Glam

Bikini - [LG] K-Collection (Spring 13)Vanessa3 Bikini
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 06
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - TRUTH Tymber - platinum
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman
 

#152 From Dusk till Dawn With Vigilante Fashionista




Have you ever just sat down and looked into the sky and just day dreamed. Not for anything in particular you just start staring at the water around you, glancing at the trees nearby, spying a bird or two flittering across the sky. You seem content and happy, yet there was just something that made your mind drift away.

Sometimes that happens to me a lot, it can happen when I am content or with friends. I find myself wishing for something greater, something more.  Daydreaming for what? I ask myself why certain things happen, Why can't I control life.  I guess, simply put..It's your life. It's ok if you can't control others. It's just not ok if you can't control your life and let others control yours.

You only have one chance to live this life. Don't pass this precious chance to others. It's your life.
It is completely yours. Make it how you want it to be, live it your way, but don't waste it. This is what I tell myself everyday. I am my own destiny, and for those of you that strive for something more, you only have one life so enjoy.. cause you should do what you want with it and don't let anyone change it..

This awesome setting for photo 1 and photo 2 is at Neva River. Thankyou so much for allowing me to take this photo.
For our destination today, I would like to take you to Room 69.. Everything at $69L or under. So don't delay, come take a visit to our destination below.


Destination: Neva River, and Room69

Top - oO{VF}Oo- Omstud Top from Room69
Shorts - oO{VF}Oo- Omstud Shorts
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 06
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - [LeLutka]-ALICE hair - Sookie
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman
Accessory 1 - Gos Boutique - Bare Feet



#151 Spring Cleaning time with Amarelo Manga



There is no escaping the fact that household chores are an essential part of our lives; cooking, washing and cleaning are done in every home on a daily basis and of all the domestic chores, cleaning is likely to be the least favourite, and is mine. 

I have such a dislike at cleaning up after people and cleaning not only requires effort it is also very time-consuming; unless of course you are using the professional services of a cleaning company.  No matter what, if you are like me, I spend at least one whole day to cleaning house, grocery shopping and then tidying after some slobs all after working one whole week. Don't get me wrong, I'm not lazy one little bit, I just can't stand mess, and prefer my house to glow and smell pretty.  I so wish for a magic Genie sometimes to have everyone be like me and pick up after themselves, just to give a hand rather than leave mess and expect the maid to do their work for them. :)

So I guess with that in mind, I took the concept of cleaning to SL and now have been for the past month, tidying up my inventory, which had some 35,000 items all messy and out of place and I must admit it is looking fantastic and so easy to find items now.

Doing the household chores is rarely fun and it is even less so when faced with having to do it at a time when other individuals are out and about enjoying themselves or simply chilling out, so with that in mind, the house can wait for another day, as my relaxation starts now as SL comes a beckoning this weekend.

For more information about the clothing I am wearing, please take a look at our destination for today - Amarelo Manga.


Destination - Amarelo Manga

Dress - [Amarelo Manga] - Dress Rayanne
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 05
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - ! Sugarsmack !  : Bonne - Bombshell Blondes
 

#150 Searching for Seashells with LivGlam


I loooove when you find a spot when the low tide is still receding and just strong enough to carry the shells along with it. Shelling as they call it is one of my favourite pastimes. It is addictive. As you walk along the beach and admire the beauty of the shining sparkling lights that reflect off the shells. You flick your fingers across the shell, turning if over to see if broken, any inhabitants still in there, you ask? Once you dust off the sand, and the salt some of the shells are truly amazing.

As I live very close to the beach, unfortunately, I can’t hide that I have a Seashell problem.

Friends get worried when they see me walking the beach. Why is she keeping the eyes on the ground instead of contemplating waves and horizon as is the custom? “Have you lost something?” They ask?
They know me better now and can't help but join in and say look what I found :)

Fishermen watch  too. They wonder what profitable business is this foreign woman in too, Crab hunting? No,  this woman just loves seashell hunting, and my whole bathroom is full of them. All nestled into a beautiful glass bowl, that sits lovingly by the window sill, sparkling lights across the bathroom.

So my destination for today, is to come and explore the wonders of SL as you never know what treasures you may find as you walk along the beach.

Destination - Skye Neist Point

Dress - [LG] Boutique-[Summer 13] Haleigh Print Dress
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 05
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - b - smitten - dark blondes
Accessory 1 - DeLa*= Sunglasses "RG1" Swirl Black lens

 

#149 As the day closes in, you may think I had forgotten you, Sweet Dreams with Red Mint


Have you ever looked up into the clear night sky, stared at the stars and thought how insignificantly small we are as a planet? We are just a fleck of dust in the cosmos compared to the majestic star fields that stretch out across the dark sky. I especially love the movement of the stars as the night progresses. It gives a rather intense visual feeling of the speed of 'our' little planet as it spins and moves its way through space.
 
I found a video clip the other day that thought suited this blog. Hope you enjoy.
For more information about our destination today, come take a visit to Red Mint.
 
 
 
   Under the Milky Way Tonight
 
 


Top - (r)M~(Dwindle)Top~No.09 (New)
Skirt - (r)M ~ BabyDoll Skirt (No.07) (/wo bellyChain)
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 06
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - eXxEsS : TIAMAT Mesh Hair - Blond
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman
Accessory 1 - [we're CLOSED] drapes white) - Not for sale
Accessory 2 - Zigana . Rug Natural
Accessory 3 - RnB Mesh Birdhouse v2 - Spring from the SFF
Accessory 4 - Roya- Sofa - BAZAR

#148 The Summer Festivals to beat all Summer Festivals, Come play with OrsiniRed, Pixelites, Elephante, Legal Insanity, and Gos


Undoubtedly one of the only ways to welcome in the Summer is to attend a Summer Festival. Whether that be a concert or two, a summer fiesta, or a fashion event.  Summer festivals bring excitement, fun, thrills, laughter and of course, just being outdoors after being cooped up all winter.

One summer festival that is on at present, is the Summer Fashion Festival for 2013. Prepare to be awed by some of the biggest designer names offering exciting line-ups of fashionable clothing all cute in their little caravan of tents, showcasing artistic styles just for you for the Summer Fashion Festival, 2013.

Thankyou to a brilliant photographer - Lestat Draconia for creating two of these beautiful photos for me.

Photo no 1, I am wearing the summer styles of OrsinRed, that just oozes Summer fun. Photo no 2, I am wearing the gorgeous styles of Pixelites Inc. matched with these cute Gos Flip Flops and the excellent summer pose from Elephante.  This casual tank dress below made by Lady Avalira by Pixelites Inc was perfect to welcome in the summer festival that is being held from  May 30th to June 16th, 2013


Photo 3 below, is from another outstanding designer called Legal Insanity. Legal Insanity continues to awe and surprise me with every turn of the needle.  Some of the creative and inspiring colours include: Rose, and Cherries which I am wearing below, and many other exciting colours to offer.

So don't delay come take a ride to the Summer Festival of all Summer Festivals.

 
Destination:  THE SUMMER FASHION FESTIVAL (SFF)
 
 
Picture 1
Dress - OrsiniRed Mesh Top & Skirt Tequila Exclusive to SFF (New)
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 07
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - TRUTH Devina - Champagne
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman
Accessory 1 - oOXA PandoraOo Sunrise Bone Necklace
Accessory 2 - Amarelo Manga - Sunglasses Rhamona, Leopard
Accessory 3 - Cute Bunny [ MUSCHI ] - Marketplace
 

Picture 2
Dress - PL:: The Diva - Casual Tank Dress, Exclusive to SFF (New)
Shoes - [Gos] Boutique - FlipFlops - Paint (New)
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 07
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - Vanity Hair - Vendetta -Blonde (New)
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman
Accessory 1 - Miel Hipster Peepers - Candy Gloss
Accessory 2 - Lassitude and Ennui - Silver Chunky Necklace
Accessory 3 - Fallen over beach bag with The BeachStore
Pose - EP - Summer Time #1, comes with beach ball  (New)
 
 
Picture 3
Dress - Legal Insanity - Coco Tunic (Cherries) Exclusive to SFF (New)
Skin - Glam Affair - Cleo - America - 07
Eyes - IKON Destiny Eyes - Clarity
Hair - D!va Hair "Manon" (Type A) (Cat's eye)
Nails - Ultra Mesh Rigged Fingernails V 4 by Jaman