We need love but all we want is danger, that’s what Taylor Swift sings out to us all.

Whether it is men wanting this in women, or women wanting this in men or equal sexes wanting this in each other, for the benefit of this post, we all seem to want the bad ‘guy’. Why is that the case?

What it all comes down to is biology. We are literally, scientifically geared to the bad guy. While women claim to want “the nice guy,” we're genetically hard-wired to want to procreate with the alpha male because he has stronger sperm. There’s just something so satisfying about taking the jerk home from the bar who’s spent most of the night intellectually challenging you in a heated verbal debate and all you want to do is strangle him with his ego, but at the same time want to jump his bones. :D.

So when it comes to sex, women are more inclined toward the fiery, passionate qualities they attribute to the “bad boy” or the alpha male, but when it comes to dating and serious relationships, women claim to want a “nice guy.” It's like we just can't help ourselves. We want those arrogant guys who make us somehow feel alive.  We love the danger. We know they're wrong for us, they'll never treat us the way we think we deserve to be treated, and instead of running for the hills, we jump on for the ride. Damn you, biology! No woman wants to be with a man who doesn't know how to assert himself. Whether we want to admit it or not, we want excitement in our relationships. We want a powerful, aggressive man. This can be a difficult thing to admit as a strong, independent female, but it is, nonetheless, true. Women don't want to be with someone who is all calm seas and clear skies; we crave constant challenges in everything we do. When it comes to love, we choose the guy who satisfies that desire. The nice guy may seem great on paper, but he turns out bland in real life. We want a project. Women like to “fix men.” A nice guy doesn’t need any taming. He’s already solid on the home front. He isn’t intense or severe.  When a woman is faced with a “bad boy,” she automatically finds the challenge to tame him alluring. His vanity is all at once angering and intoxicating. If she can bring him down to earth, it would be the ultimate accomplishment.

Destinations: - Black Fashion Fair

Hair: - enVOGUE HAIR - Whitney Fitted - Blonde  - (New) @ Black Fashion Fair

 

You should be right here, i'll do the pedals you shift the gears,

To sit next to you, why would I just wanna get there quick?Haill traffic we were happy right, so what the hell happened?I just wanna say .. you went away...

So what are you waiting for come take a walk to our destinations for today: - 

Destinations: - EnVOGUE, Purple Moon, Kustom 9 and The LTD Event

'Better never than late - said George Bernard Shaw'

That is what I was saying to myself when trying to get more publicity for my blog. With a real life that is so busy, I find it hard to publish every day, but do my ultimate best to get in as many blogs as I can when I have the available time. The motto above is exactly what I have been feeling of late, it means: "To arrive or do something later than expected isn't good, but it is better than not at all". 

If you are going to be late, tell that person, if you are finding it hard to blog something as quick as they would like then tell them, and finally if you can't meet that deadline, don't be scared and let that person know why. At first the people will be relatively peeved, but they will understand at the end. By not showing at all, or not trying, attempting to finish etc, they will be more hurt if you don't have a go.