#593 We need love but all we want is danger...

We need love but all we want is danger, that’s what Taylor Swift sings out to us all.

Whether it is men wanting this in women, or women wanting this in men or equal sexes wanting this in each other, for the benefit of this post, we all seem to want the bad ‘guy’. Why is that the case?
Most women claim to want the guy who is sensitive, emotionally fluent and intimate. Yet, when it comes down to it, women consistently chase after the “bad boy,” the guy who is narcissistic, self-absorbed and avoids all forms of intimacy as if they were infectious diseases. While we're constantly on the lookout for that super sweet, caring guy who will make a great companion, we're actually attracted to the guy who ignites passion within us that lights the fire, and is fiery all the way. Nice guys are just boring…

What it all comes down to is biology. We are literally, scientifically geared to the bad guy. While women claim to want “the nice guy,” we're genetically hard-wired to want to procreate with the alpha male because he has stronger sperm. There’s just something so satisfying about taking the jerk home from the bar who’s spent most of the night intellectually challenging you in a heated verbal debate and all you want to do is strangle him with his ego, but at the same time want to jump his bones. :D.
This nice guy stereotype contends that women often claim they want a nice guy, a man who is sweet, kind and sensitive, and yet, when it comes down to it, she rejects this man for one with “other salient characteristics” like a hot body or an ultra-strong personality.

So when it comes to sex, women are more inclined toward the fiery, passionate qualities they attribute to the “bad boy” or the alpha male, but when it comes to dating and serious relationships, women claim to want a “nice guy.” It's like we just can't help ourselves. We want those arrogant guys who make us somehow feel alive.  We love the danger. We know they're wrong for us, they'll never treat us the way we think we deserve to be treated, and instead of running for the hills, we jump on for the ride. Damn you, biology! No woman wants to be with a man who doesn't know how to assert himself. Whether we want to admit it or not, we want excitement in our relationships. We want a powerful, aggressive man. This can be a difficult thing to admit as a strong, independent female, but it is, nonetheless, true. Women don't want to be with someone who is all calm seas and clear skies; we crave constant challenges in everything we do. When it comes to love, we choose the guy who satisfies that desire. The nice guy may seem great on paper, but he turns out bland in real life. We want a project. Women like to “fix men.” A nice guy doesn’t need any taming. He’s already solid on the home front. He isn’t intense or severe.  When a woman is faced with a “bad boy,” she automatically finds the challenge to tame him alluring. His vanity is all at once angering and intoxicating. If she can bring him down to earth, it would be the ultimate accomplishment.
Our destination for today is now but closed, and apologise for the lateness of this blog, however all items below are available instore.

Destinations: - Black Fashion Fair

Hair: - enVOGUE HAIR - Whitney Fitted - Blonde  - (New) @ Black Fashion Fair
Panties and Bra: -[ILAYA] ~Persuade Panties and Bra: - (New) @ Black Fashion Fair
Stockings and Suspenders: -Dead Dollz - Jude Stockings+Suspenders: - (New) @ Black Fashion Fair
Head: - CATWA HEAD Candy V4.9 (New)
Canopy: - [ Zerkalo ] Britain's Bedroom - Canopy Light
Vase with Roses: -[ARIA] Bella Vase With Roses
Paper Whites: - keke ] zink trays w paper whites
Bottles: - [ zerkalo ] Mademoiselle - Three Altered Bottles
Flower Ball: - [ Zerkalo ] Mademoiselle - Flower Ball
Jewellry Boxes: - ARIA] Bella Vanity Jewellery Boxes
White Cabinet: - junk. little white cabinet.
Needle Pin: -  keke ] polaroid - needle pin blank
Dress Form Jewellry: - Zerkalo ] Mademoiselle - Dress form Jewelry D
Zink Trays: - [ keke ] zink trays w paper whites
Vanity Bench: - [PM]Pixel Mode - Vanity Bench - D
Roman Blinds: - [ARIA] Savannah Roman Blinds


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