If you don’t ask, the answer is already no… so what does it take to ask for what you want—and then get it? There seems to be a magical art behind creating a great ask, and we all know stories of people who seem to get exactly what they want whenever they ask. I used to see this as people just being lucky or having the gift of the gab like Sales people. I saw them as magicians who could bend and will the world to their ways. Why is this? What are they doing that no one else seems to be doing? How do they ask for what they want and seem to get it every time?

Destinations: - Sir Monthly, Fameshed and The Gacha Garden


Chain Frame: – Fancy Décor Chain Frame (New) @ Sir Monthly
Map Frame: - Fancy Décor – Map Frame (New) @ Sir Monthly
Alice – Letiroiu: – Knick Knacks – Alice – Letiroiu (New)
Mid Drift Dress: - Eyelure – Mid Drift Dress – Maitreya – in Grey (New) in store
Day Bed: – Unkindness – Canvas Day Bed (Adult) – (New) @ Fameshed
Tainted Palm: – Kalopsia Tainted Palm in Pink (Rare) (New) @ The Gacha Garden
Pouff Bancha: – Glam Affair Pouf Bancha (New) @ The Gacha Garden
Metal Wall Décor: – Glam Affair Metal Wall Décor (New) @ The Gacha Garden
Necklace: - MG Necklace – Constanina – Low (New) @ Fameshed
Dog: - O.M.E.N – Pitt Bulldog
Curtain: - Cinphul Lace Curtain – ASBMF – Lace 1

Alles (bottom photo) is wearing the new hair from Tableau Vivant called 'Koca Hair', wings by ClaVv as per above, MG Nose ring, and her CX lethal talons that she loves to wear.

The forests, the oceans, the rivers, the mountains, the wildlife, the birds… these are the area codes of mother nature, and where the adventurer inside of us comes out to play.  You need a few things, of course: An open mind, wild open spaces, the willingness to explore, and a couple of good friends by your side. A map will only lead you to the known, and we’re here to discover the unknown. 

When the road ends, this is where our feet will pick us up.  It a matter of finding the path and heading to a direction unknown. Do you like to travel where the wild things roam?

Wearing the stunning new outfit from GizzA Creations that has just been released today, called the "Petra Jacket and top, the awesome and delicate jewelry from MD from Collabor88, 
I bring to you our destinations for today: - 

For all the ladies and to all men that may be reading this, my work decided to hold a charity event raising money for cancer. We actually called the event - 'Be Aware'. It was to raise awareness amongst the many and various branches of which I look after across Australia and overseas. Even for those countries that the subject may be taboo in some circumstances, we wanted people to become Aware.

If I asked you all do you know of anyone close to you that has passsed away from cancer or has cancer now, I would say the percentage of you all would be approx 90% would know someone that has Cancer. I know this is a scary topic and morbid in some cases, but the more people that become aware of their own changes in their body the better you all will be. The signals are there. We see changes everyday. You need to be aware to look out for them.

Believe me I am the first to put my hand up and state I hate going to the doctors, but realise it is a part of life and self checks and regular checkups from the doctors are vital to living a long life.
Some statistics for you: - The top five cancers are: - Lung, Prostrate, Colon, Pancreas, Liver. For women Breast and Ovarian are also high. So don't delay, if you find the smallest issue, yes it is a pain in the backside to line up and wait at the doctors, but it is worth the time, 2-3 hours out of your life every couple of months, is better than facing the chemo and radiation ward anyday.!!

Wearing the gorgeous and cute slinky new outfit from Eyelure, with some accessories from MG - from Collabor88, I bring to you our destination for today: -

Destination: - Eyelure, Del May, Truth Hair

Tank: - Eyelure Grey Shamrock Tank (New) @ Eyelure
Shorts: - Mini Shorts - Green Stripe (New) @ Eyelure
Mouth: - Eyelure Photoreal Teeth (New) @ Eyelure
Skin: - Glam Affair - Katra Skin ( America )
Hair: - TRUTH HAIR Bexley (New) @ Truth Hair
Necklace: - MG ( Maxi Gossamer) Necklace - Secret Love Affair @ Collabor88 and Maxi Gossamer
Body: - Maitreya Mesh Body - Lara

Pose: - Del May - Body Check (New) @ Del May
Picture taken at Home - Isle of Serendipity - Neva Lived in Homes

 Have you ever constantly picked up your phone checking messages, did i miss it? Did he call?
Why the hell do we torture ourselves and wait. Why do we wait?.  Normally it is easy enough to tell if a guy likes you because they ask you out, want your number or try to attract your attention.   If you suspect that you are one of those people, that are looking at your phone, for that text, messenger or update. Forget it, if he dosen't say hello then he is not interested or unsure.

Yes it can be frustrating to determine whether he is into you or not. Here I give you some simple signs to look out for which will let you know for sure whether he is interested or time to stop waiting!!.

Time: The first thing people invest in a new relationship is time – new lovers will spend hours composing perfect emails or talking on the phone; your mobile phone becomes your best friend as you wait in eager anticipation for the next text, email or call so you can respond straight away. If a guy continually seems too busy to make time for you in his day then it is a sure sign that he isn’t really interested in pursuing a relationship with you.
Playing the field:  The sure sign that a guy isn’t interested in you is that even after you have been dating for a while they are still dating other people and encouraging you to do the same. If this is the case take his lead and go and find someone who is interested in developing a relationship exclusively with you. He is not worth it. He just wants the good ole "Friends.. or Friends with Benefits". Women are emotional beings and am sorry to say, Unless you can control your heart, friends with benefits whilst is awesome can tear you apart in the end when you see him with someone else.
Feeling Invisible: - In a healthy relationship there will be mutual interest – you will want to talk about yourself and share your life but you will also want to know about the other person and their life. Listening is as important as speaking and it is through this two way communication that we develop intimacy. When you are on a date you should feel as though you are the object of their attention,  if you are on a date with someone who isn’t that into you this won’t be the case – you may feel invisible. They will talk about themselves, go to places that interest them and seem oblivious to your needs, wants or feelings. You deserve better than that. So stop waiting, enjoy your life, explore, travel and don't forget time is short and waiting by that phone is not the answer.

Wearing the smart and chic outfit from Gizza Creations called the GizzA Stacey Dress I bring to you our destination for today: -



Destination for today: - GizzA Creations



Outfit: - Gizza Stacey Dress - (Plaid Beige) - Gizza Creations (New)
Skin: - Glam Affair - Sia Skin (Fairy Tale) (New) - Collabor88

Hair: - Celestia Brown - Tableau Vivant - Collabor88 (New)
Pouf: - Pilot Ruffle Pouf - Collabor88 (New)
Locker: - Apple Fall (Neva) Vintage Locker (New) @ The Chapter four (chapter 20)
Apple Pie: - Apple Fall (Neva) Apple Pie (New) @ The Chapter four (chapter 20)
Kitchen Shelf:  - Apple Fall (Neva) Kitchen Shelf (Rare) (New) @ The Chapter four (chapter 20)
Deer: - Dust Bunny Porcelein Deer

Pose: -  Bauhaus Movement