#675 Scared to be lonely..
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17:45
This is a letter for the
new me. Yes you know who I am talking about. The one that is currently sulking at home
alone, thinking “I don’t want to be lonely…Thinking do I take that risk or not..
I know things have been
tough lately. Every day feels the same and you want to scream from the top of
your lungs because it sucks. Every day you feel like you’re on a downward
spiral. You just hope that your life starts to change real soon. It can begin
to get better for you from “wait for it, one more sec, NOW!
See, I was once
you. I searched for what I was supposed to do with my life. I was looking for a
career, not just a job. A career I could amaze my friends when they ask you
that dreaded question.. So what do you do?
So you have turned... (shh – 30), and you
still don’t know what to do with your life.Who cares as long as you are enjoying what you want to do.. right?. You thought life would be great by now, and everything else
would fall into place. You’d get married, have a nice house, have kids, and
live happily ever after.
See new me, I’ve learned
that life doesn’t have to be about finding that one thing you’re meant to do
and then do it forever. Some people do find that one thing and dedicate their
whole lives because they love it. To me life is about exploring everything out
there. It’s trying different things and putting more attention on certain ones.
There’s so much out there that it’d be a shame to not have more than one
interest. Is what I’m doing now what I’ll be doing forever? No, but I’ve found
something that I enjoy at this moment. I know new opportunities will present
itself and my need for a new challenge will come along. Who knows what I’ll be
doing five years from now, but for now, I like what I do and have stopped
searching for the meaning of life.
If you don’t know what you want to do with your life, it’s okay!
However a better life isn’t going to be
found watching television, or mindlessly surfing the internet, or checking
Facebook every five minutes. It’s not found sitting on the couch after work
every night or drinking your sorrows away every weekend with your buddies. Your
life won’t improve if you constantly feel sorry for yourself or rely on others
to make it better for you. Nor is a better life going to happen instantly. So
stop clicking your heels together, cause those fantasies remain with Wizard of
Oz.
I know you don’t want to
hear it, but it’s going to take one day at a time. You need to start making
deliberate choices and stop sleepwalking through life. Stop pointing blame at
others and make a list of the new you items and start slowing just with one of
them. As the new you is about to be made. So I ask one thing, and one thing
only. Stop with the damn frowning and place a smile on that face, as who is
going to like a misery guts.. Yes made you smile, There’s the new you after all. x
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