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#768 If you want me like that, that's who I'll be...


If you want me like that, that's who I'll be, 
If you love me right back,  
I could be anything, 
It's like this and like that I think I'm starting to crack, 
Then you'll leave and come back..

If you love me right back,  
If you want me like that, that's who I'll be...


So what are you waiting for, come take a walk to our destinations for today: - 

Destinations: -  FaMESHed, Shiny Shabby, Uber 

KUNGLERS - Thania necklace – Crystal - (New) @ Shiny Shabby 
:[P]:- Io Table [Sparkle] - Brass - (New) @ Shiny Shabby 
:[P]:- Io Mirror [Sparkle] - Brass - (New) @ Shiny Shabby 
[ zerkalo ] Biker's Place - Bike Lift - Adult -  (New) @ Uber 
[ zerkalo ] Biker's Place - Bike Bar -  (New) @ Uber 
Giz Seorn - Savanna Shorts [Chestnut] - (New) @ FaMESHed, 
Giz Seorn - Scarlett Top [Brown] Lara - (New) @ FaMESHed, 
**UTOPIA@Design** - "ROXI" - (Maitreya) - (New) @ FaMESHed, 
#Besom Beauty~ Pretty Lash (catwa) 
[PUMEC] :. - .:ASHA:. /  PP APRIL  \  -  SKIN SET 
Sintiklia - Hair Ira - Colors& naturals limited 
Zenith=S&M Whip (Black) 
AMITIE::: Romantic Pouf 
DasKa - commercial prefab by Abiss  
Ana Poses - Jiufen 1 

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#635 Scruffy Hospitality...



A woman I admire very much said something so simple to me when I was complaining about the state of mess in my house.. She said whenever someone was coming to her home — a home with five children in it — and she started to worry about how her home looked, she would stop and think: "Are they coming to see me, or are they coming to see my home?" It occurred to her that someone who would have a problem with her home looking like a family of seven lived in it wasn't really someone's opinion she cared about.  I'd love to say I embraced that wisdom immediately, but I didn't. Slowly, though, I have let go of some of the crazy things I believed must happen before people entered my front door. The first thing I let go was the dog and cat hairs. A sweep I did do, but would fret seeing a ball of hair fly across the timber floors.  Over the years, I've became more relaxed. Next, I didn't dust. Nobody said a word, and they came back again. 0.0.. :)
I didn't plan the entire meal around foods I could prepare ahead of time so my kitchen could be spotless when my guests arrived. Friends jumped in the kitchen mainly desert time, am hopeless at deserts and they helped me finish making dinner, and we had fun.
I call this scruffy hospitality. Scruffy hospitality means you’re not waiting for everything in your house to be in order before you host and serve friends in your home. Scruffy hospitality means you hunger more for good conversation and serving a simple meal of what you have, not what you don’t have. It's hard to let go of the belief that our homes need to be picture-perfect — or maybe I should say "Pinterest-perfect" — before we can welcome guests. The idea that we must make our home look unlived in before having people over stops so many of us from sharing life together. So next time you are about to entertain, think really is it that bad?

Destinations: - Shiny Shabby and The Crossroads Event

Dress: - :V.e. Valentina E - Hopeless Romantic Dress MAITREYA (no scripts) - (New) @ Shiny Shabby
Hair: -.Entwined. Zoe (M) - (New) @ The Crossroads
Skin: - .:[PUMEC] :. - .:Sonia:. -  /  April \  - SKIN (Catwa) - (New) @ Shiny Shabby
Cup: - [Merak] - Lexi Set - Cup to Go - (New) @ The Crossroads
Magazines: - [Merak] - Lexi Set - Magazines Display (Silver) - (New) @ The Crossroads
Table: - [Merak] - Amelie Table - (New) @ The Crossroads
Mobile: - MG - Maxi Gossamer - Boho Beaded Mobile - Fameshed
Gourds: - Apple Fall Gourds in Vintage Bowl
Pup: - JIAN Lively Labs :: Golden Companion Pup - (New) @ The Arcade September
Potted Plants: - Soy. Shitamachi Alley Garden - Potted Plants, E, G (New) @ The Arcade September
Choker: - *agp* Agapee Remy Choker
Treehouse: - Trompe Loeil - Natalia Treehouse
Head: - CATWA HEAD Cami V4.9
Body: - Maitreya Mesh Body - Lara

Pose: - RK Poses. Endless love - (Part of couple pose) (New) @ The Crossroads


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#615 The only adventure you regret is the one you didn’t take...


Mark Twain once said “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.”
We hear people lament their lost loves, lost health and lost opportunities all the time.  When we’re young, we feel we have all the time in the world to make the right choices, go after our goals and find our true purpose in life. By the time we become old; we will have accomplished some of those aims and missed out on others. That’s normal, because life is finite. And of course, what’s important to us at age 26 is totally different to what matters at 56.
Each life stage brings new challenges, new triumphs and new disappointments. Some of us seem to accumulate a formidable load of regrets by our 30s, while others manage to reach their last years of life and say “I wouldn’t have done anything differently – that was a full life and I’m satisfied.”
We’re all different in our expectations of ourselves and the world we live in. At the end of life, regret is useless – it’s a negative emotion that accomplishes nothing. But when we’re younger, regret has some use: it can be a prod that pushes us to live life as we wish, not as we must.
Some of us regret that we didn’t live life the way we want too, we didn’t travel abroad more often, we wish we didn’t work so hard, etc etc.
We all have some small regrets even at the age of 30 or 40. Perhaps the biggest mistake we all make is saying “I’ll start tomorrow”. The time to start making the right choices for your life isn’t tomorrow – it’s right now, because tomorrow is never guaranteed.  

Destinations: - The Crossroads Event, Indie Teepee and The Chapter Four

Skin:  .:[PUMEC] :. - .:Joanna:. -  /  March \  - SKIN (Lelutka)- (New) @ The Crossroads Event
Roses: -  [Zerkalo] Fresh Roses - White - (New) @ The Crossroads Event
Hair: - pr!tty - Lohni - [All Ombre Huds] :boxed: (SUPER RARE) (New) @ The Chapter Four
Vase: - KAZZA - Time Room Set - Vase - (New) @ The Chapter Four
Candlestick: - KAZZA - Time Room Set - candlestick -  (New) @ The Chapter Four
Necklace:  :: PM :: Purple Moon - Avery Necklace -all metals - (New) @ The Chapter Four
Stool: - ionic : minimal needs : Stool ( Wood) -  (New) @ The Chapter Four
Chandelier: - KAZZA - Time Room Set - candle chandelier -  (New) @ The Chapter Four
Ivy Divider: - Ionic : minimal needs : Ivy Divider  -  (New) @ The Chapter Four
Guitar Set: - HIDEKI - Vintage Guitar Set  RARE -  (New) @ The Chapter Four
Armchair: - KAZZA - Time Room Set - armchair -  (New) @ The Chapter Four
Tapestry: - brocante. pinned tapestry /  - (New) @ Indie Teepee
Incense Burner: - BALACLAVA!! TeePee Incense Burner - (New) @ Indie Teepee
Cigarbox: - BALACLAVA!! Cigarbox Ukulele (F) -  (New) @ Indie Teepee
Photobox: - HIDEKI - floorplan. photo box gift -  (New) @ Indie Teepee
Dress: - Faida - Violetta Flame - Was at The Liaison Collaborative - now instore
Handbag: - Ariskea[Tropic] Handbag [Mexico 1]
Curtain: - [ zerkalo ] Britain's Bedroom - Curtain Light



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