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Showing posts with label Clef de Peau. Show all posts

#621 If a man has not discovered something that he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.... 'Stand for Peace'




I was reading an article the other day in the Time Magazine and wanted to share the below with you. It is basically what we all are thinking when it comes to ‘Standing for Peace’.

“The moment someone punches you in the face might seem like a strange time to figure out your philosophy. But in fact, being threatened or hurt is an opportunity to re-examine what you are made of”. As the Paris attacks reinforced, we face a foe who has no doubt about what they believe, or how committed they are to that belief. ISIS is a fanatically devoted cult. To counter such a challenge with pusillanimity is to court disaster. It is urgent for the Western world to ask itself anew—what do we believe? Why except this behavior.

Confronting the dangerous ideological foes of the past—Soviet communism or Nazism—the West was clear and firm in its counter-narrative. We have to be just as clear today. We ask Americans, Australian’s, Europeans and so on to fight and die for the ideals of this nation, and one of the ways we honour that sacrifice is to clarify for ourselves and for the world what those ideals are. An unarmed side loses even in a battle of ideas. Primary among the beliefs that are a pillar of our Western monotheistic heritage is that every human being is in the image of God. Our declaration of Independence secularized this into every individual having the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. You need not believe in God to agree that the first ideal for which we fight is the dignity and worth of every individual, regardless of the envelope of life circumstances that surround them. The second ideal is freedom. Freedom means more than “you don’t get to tell me what to do.” Real freedom presupposes a society that both removes obstacles and provides avenues to human flourishing. A group that dictates religion, dress, intellectual inquiry and artistic expression is not only violating freedom in a negative sense—”you may not do this”—but in a positive sense—”I will not provide ways for you to educate yourself in this field.” Freedom is not only the right to close your door, but the chance to open your business or write your book, or blog in this case.

The third ideal is the solidarity of free people. The spontaneous declarations of unity with France express the sense we have of being in this together. Not because we were both attacked, but because we stand for the same things. The solidarity of freedom will ultimately prove more robust than the uniformity of servitude. Dignity, liberty and the alliance of those who choose their lives—these are the underlying ideals with which we confront the enemies of civilization.

Rev. Martin Luther King said: “If a man has not discovered something that he will die for, he isn’t fit to live.” In a struggle against evil, we have to cherish the sacrifices made for the ideals of goodness. We draw on the roots of our traditions for the fruits of our freedoms—the dignity of people, the solidarity of the free, the hope that one day the whole world will come to see those blessings not as a gift, but as a universal human right”.

Showcasing some gorgeous items available to you now, so what are you waiting for, come take a walk to our destination for today: -


Destinations: - Shiny Shabby


Head: - CATWA HEAD Helena [Basic Head] - *YS&YS* Bambi Tone02 Skin Applier - Catwa Mesh Head – (New) @ Shiny Shabby
Hair: - [e] Xaverie - Hair Fair 2016
Dress: - Clef de Peau Outlet.Natasha Dress (Maitreya) Linen - (New) @ Shiny Shabby
Bracelet: - Clef de Peau Outlet.Anja Bracelet ( Unrigged) Silver (New) @ Shiny Shabby
Shoes: - :::ChicChica::: Marsella Night M – (New) @ Shiny Shabby
Necklace: - Glam Affair - Nicky Pearl Drops –  The Forest – July (Now Instore)
Head Accessory: - *LODE*- Forest Beauty [green frog] - The Forest – July (Now Instore)
Mannequin: - NOMAD // Bright Headed Mannequin A, B, C, and D - The Forest – July (Now Instore)
Candle: - *ionic* White Candelabrum


Pose: - Bauhaus Movement - Mirai

#589 I look for answers...If I don't laugh and smile there is fear of howling like a baby.


These last few weeks I've been dealing with some pretty intense fears. I'm not afraid to admit that I'm only human and fear rears it’s ugly head in my life too. Whilst every post I try and be positive for you all, today my fear has taken hold and I wanted to share. 

Way back I mentioned that my mother was suffering from severe dementia and well she's a stubborn woman if I must say and wasn't meant to last past Christmas. Two Christmas later, it happens again and the call goes out to the family that her body is shutting down. Again now we are in April and she fighting with all her life but still whenever we make plans (those plans), she fights with all her strength...

Whilst my mother is available to see not like some of my friends who have lost their loved ones, I look at my mother who is now blind, tell her that I love her, hold her hand, wipe her face, kiss her head, and tell her I am always by her side. My mother you see is my heart. I share stories and even though she nods, I am not sure she understands who I am and what I am saying to her. Mum did everything for me and did it well. I never looked for anything, I had the best upbringing, and without her love I wouldn't be the same as I am now. In saying that my mother she can't talk, she can't feed herself, she can't wash herself, she has no independence and gives the nurses hell. I guess I would do the same. 

My fear apart from losing her.. I now have another shock of fear and that is my father now has been diagnosed with dementia, and his dementia is progressing quite rapidly. My father is in the same position my mother was in a few years back. To explain my father is my rock. I have accepted my mother's dementia and whilst the tears flow every time I see her, I am in complete shock that the doctors – specialists now state my father has moderate dementia as well and will need to go to a home now. I honestly can't cope. 

Well, I've noticed a few things about fear over the last few weeks. The first thing is our reluctance to feel it. There is so MUCH god-damn resistance and dogma around fear. First up, it’s pretty much viewed as a sign of weakness if you admit to anyone that you’re scared or experiencing fear. I never call out for help myself, and admit that I broke down last week at work when i heard the news from the doctors.

Yet we ALL feel it. No one wants to admit it, so we bury it away and deny it’s own very existence. The problem with that is – the more you hide it, the stronger it gets. Fear for me is my life changing a direction I can't control. My father being the hero in my life, my heart wants to explode as I hear him stumble for words and memory loss quite significant, repeating his stories over and over again. When all I want to do is scream, shake him and tell him to wake up. I went through these emotions with my mother and eventually accepted it. I know I can't do any of the above to Dad, so I hold back the tears when I see him, only to howl like a baby that I now have two parents that need care and whilst my mother does not know who I am and hasn't for quite some time, my fear takes hold will I ever be able to accept my father not recognizing me in a few months.. My fear in this case is shock. Denial that life can be this mean. Understanding to overcome this fear I have to be strong, but will I be able to cope with the change that is most definitely coming....

Amidst the backdrop of Neva River, with some added scenery from Little Branch with their new LB_HoneyTree, and  LB_SpringBrise_v2 {With Flowers Menu} @ Lost and Found.
Wearing the gorgeous new outfit from Clef de Peau called "Sarah", sitting upon the delicately made Farum furniture set in brown from Elysium @ Shiny Shabby, with the stunning new hair from Moon called "Uma" @ Black Fashion Fair, and some other exciting items available to you right now, I bring to you our destinations for today: - 
Link direct to stores at Shiny Shabby are included for you below.


Dress: - Clef de Peau Outlet.Sarah Ruffled Dress.Creme (New) @ Shiny Shabby
Hair: - Moon. Hair. // Code Uma - (New) @ Black Fashion Fair
Necklace: - Chrysta Silver by Tracei - (New) @ The Lost and Found
Chair: -Elysium - Farum furniture set - brown - (New) @ Shiny Shabby
Honey Tree: - LB_HoneyTree{Seasons} @ (New) @  Lost and Found
SpringBrise: - LB_SpringBrise_v2{With Flowers Menu} (New) Lost and Found
Wild Grass: - LB_WildGrass*1Li{Dry} (New) Lost and Found
Face:LeLutka Mesh Head-STELLA 1.3 with Glam Affair

Pose: - Bauhaus Movement - Peace

#302 Temple of Love with Legal Insanity, Elysium and Clef de Peau


It's an amazing time in Secondlife at the moment especially for us bloggers. So many events to cover, and such beautiful and captivating designs available for you all.  Two special events on at the moment are the Saviad Spring Fashion Fair which opened today and the Skin Fair 2014 which has so many many options available for men and women.

Wearing the seductive designs of Elysium from the Saviad Spring Fashion Fair with matching shoes, and the gorgeous new skin from Clef de Peau called Jemma from the Skin Fair 2014,

I bring to you our destinations for today:-









Destination: Fiera Spring Fashion Fair and Skin Fair 2014


Outfit: Elysium - Vega short jumpsuit - brown (New from Fiera Saviad Spring Fashion Fair)

Hair: -  TRUTH HAIR Rowan
Necklace: Legal Insanity - puzzle necklace for girls - silver (New) 
Shoes: - Elysium - Oona sandal heel - brown (New from Fiera Saviad Spring Fashion Fair)
Feet: - JD - MyFeet - Tip Toe

Skin: - Clef de Peau:Jemma (New) for Skin Fair 2014


Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:-.::WoW::. Diva Lashes
Lips: - Glam Affair - Romy - Lips Gloss

Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: -Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Casual

Pose: - AGM - Saviad Exclusive 1 (New from the Fiera Saviad Spring Fashion Fair)