Believe in
yourself, and the rest will fall into place. Have faith in your own abilities,
work hard, and there is nothing you cannot accomplish....
Reflecting on Martin Luther King achievements, it’s important to consider the one thing that made it possible for him (and many others) to indelibly impact the world: which was his “dream”. “I have a dream”… Still, it’s important to remember that in order to express and ultimately realize your own dreams, you have to believe in yourself. Yet, believing, especially in yourself, is much easier said than done. I know this first hand, because for the majority of my teenager life, I suffered from one of the most debilitating diseases known – a disbelief in myself. I was shy (still am to a point), and didn’t believe in myself.
Reflecting on Martin Luther King achievements, it’s important to consider the one thing that made it possible for him (and many others) to indelibly impact the world: which was his “dream”. “I have a dream”… Still, it’s important to remember that in order to express and ultimately realize your own dreams, you have to believe in yourself. Yet, believing, especially in yourself, is much easier said than done. I know this first hand, because for the majority of my teenager life, I suffered from one of the most debilitating diseases known – a disbelief in myself. I was shy (still am to a point), and didn’t believe in myself.
It started for me in
my first year of high school. My teachers (while giving inspiration to other
students) lowered their expectations for me and attempted to narrow my vision.
Although this didn’t break me, I was creative and slightly different from
others, quiet, didn’t speak up much, and therefore didn’t recognise my talents
until later in life when I started my first job.
I am generally a pretty happy person, and do feel overwhelmed, stressed,
or just waking up "on the wrong side" does happen a lot and when this
happens I think to myself, often, am I doing the right thing, am I good at my
work? My self-worth, or lack thereof, my self-doubt, I carried with me for
years, a poison that creeps back in on occasions when I am feeling low.
So when I start to
feel in this mood, I wanted to share my top five tips on how to believe in
yourself.
Maintain an attitude
of gratitude - Regardless of how life seems to challenge you, if you put out good
thoughts you'll attract these in return. I've applied this lesson from personal
relationships through to my business and it works.
Do something nice - I am not talking
about setting up a charity or doing a big fundraiser (however, if you have the
time and passion - go forth!) It can be as little as complementing the lady at
the bus stop on her shoes, buying your partner their favourite chocolate on the
way home, giving your friend a lift to the airport etc. Their happiness from
your small act of kindness is bound to rub off, it makes you feel good, and you
feel better about yourself. Plus a smile reduces stress and lowers heart rate.
Tap into good memories - Whether it is a
picture from a holiday or a song that brings back some seriously good memories,
pull it out from the memory bank and daydream. Play a song that you love,
scream out the words and sing along, even if your singing can be improved
slightly ;). This will help you reduce your anxiety and is a no brainer to have
you on your path to a better mood including feeling happy.
Figure out what
matters to you - Knowing what I value has helped me stay true to myself in all of the
choices I make. When you're living in alignment with your values it allows you
to tap into the natural confidence you have in the areas that are most
important to you.
Know that tough times
can be good - My biggest voids are actually what are steering me through life. I
believe that what challenges you the most, may be the very thing you’re
destined to overcome and may hold the key to living your true purpose.
Wearing the stunning
new Collar called 'Joan' from Salt and Pepper @ We <3 RP (coming soon) and
the gorgeous gown also from Salt and Pepper called 'Reese' @ Shiny Shabby on
now.
So what are you waiting for, come take a walk to:
So what are you waiting for, come take a walk to:
Gown: - S&P Gown Reese (Maitreya) @ Shiny Shabby
Hair: - [Entwined] Arya - Blonde
Head: - LeLutka.Mesh Head-STELLA v1.3 with Glam Affair
Pose: Amitie Fresh 02
Destination: Taken at the ‘Gathering’ (must see!!)
