6.4.15

#419 Cinderella Syndrome with Lybra


Have you ever suffered from the Cinderella Syndrome? You might know it by its other name, Over Functioning, Overdoing tasks day after day, without asking for help. Without standing your ground and saying, I need to stop!. This is a syndrome I know well. I've always wondered, why didn't Cinderella simply leave? If she could take care of herself and three other adults (stepmother and two stepsisters) then she could certainly live on her own and take care of only herself. Also, if she was old enough to marry a prince then wasn't she old enough to leave a toxic stepmother and stepsisters? Unfortunately, unlike the movie, living the Cinderella Syndrome will not result in a prince who will come and carry you off to a castle in the clouds. So abandon the Cinderella Syndrome.
Instead create a better life for yourself with more peace, joy and happiness, this includes evaluating what is comfortable for you and what you want to change in your life. It all starts with direct communication and negotiation including a time frame for change. If things don’t change after awhile, then ultimately you need to consider if you want to participate in a relationship where your needs aren't considered important. Protect yourself first. Get counseling. Learn coping skills. Healthy adult relationships require mutuality. Cinderella Syndrome only occurs when you don't have time to stand up for yourself and say ENOUGH!.

Wearing the beautiful and desirable new gown from Lybra called "Danica", available at the main store now. I bring to you our destination for today: - 

Destinations: - @ Lybra
Dress: - "Danica" - in Purple (New) @ Lybra
Necklace: - Nanny Necklace (New) @ Shiny Shabby
Hay Bale: - We're Closed Hay Bale
Cowboy Hat: - Legal Insanity Cowboy Hat
Broom: - Post Marquette Broom
Pose: - Bauhaus Movement - Nene



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