11.4.14

#311 A drop in the Ocean with Amarelo Manga




Recently I was looking into why my relationships seem to be so estranged.  Reason being I seem to attract Narcissistic type personas.  Anyone with a giving persona, and a desire to help others such as myself seems to attract narcissists. You give, they take. It’s a match made in heaven  hell. It’s an utterly confusing dynamic, not least because it’s so surreal. This happens to me in RL and in SL.



One of the keys to sanity is understanding that, when it comes to love, narcissists come from a completely different place. Healthy unconditional love requires a bonding beyond the surface appearance and behaviour of someone. It is a love that connects you to your core. 

You might come to a point in the relationship that it no longer works, yet on some level you continue to love the person, despite their behaviour. Narcissistic love is more superficial. It's not a love based on core connection it is about functionality, What you can get from them, learn from them. Narcissistic love cares only about themselves, their gain. Unconditional love requires openess and honesty. It requires facing fears, feeling different emotions and being open to change. In the narcissists mind these are awful things to be avoided at all costs. 



Wearing the beautiful yet desired elegant dress from Amarelo Manga I bring to you a love that I adore and that is our destination for today:-










Destination: Amarelo Manga


Outfit: - [AMARELO MANGA] - Dress Latifah (New)
Hair: - TRUTH HAIR Gaia
Skin: -  Glam Affair - Zara - America

Eyelashes:- Izzie's - Eyelashes v1.02

Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 

Hands: - Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Casual



Pose: - -slouch- pose272 (modified)

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