Over time I have found myself running away from negative people, running away from people that have no colour!. Negative people will try to undermine your optimism in any way they can. I have always and will be a person that loves light, optimism, and passion. I find that negative people will try and tell you gossip, bring you into their secrets of what they heard, who said what, what they think of .. endless gossip that isn't nice and harmful to yourself.

If you hang around people that do this, then they will influence you to start seeing nothing but a grim and gloomy world. Maybe the above seems harsh. One of the most endearing traits of negative people is there willingness to do anything in their powers to bring positive people down to their level. Misery doesn’t only love company; it demands it. These people have an endless supply of hard-luck stories, whether it truth or fiction. They demand attention and are capable of bringing down even the most enthusiastic and energetic people.


Don't get me wrong I love to listen to people and to try and help them, I am a caring soul. It is apart of my every day life, that I listen and try to guide and provide advice, whether it be in Rl and/or SL. Everyone has troubles in their lives and no one is perfect. Even the rich have problems. However after listening to endless problems about a person's life, if you try and help them, you suggest a counselor or for them to seek help, and they don't,  then there is not much you can do.
If their negativity continues,  I do the very next thing and run away from people that have no colour - that have such negativity in their life, that nothing will shake them out of their sorrow.  No matter how much advice is provided, They are the only ones that can only help themselves. These are the people that demand drama in their lives just for the sake of the fact they are unhappy with who they are.




For our destination today, three places that inspire and promote positive energy is the beautiful designs of Amarelo Manga, Diva and Elephante Poses. So what are you waiting for, come take a walk to:

Destination: Amarelo Manga, Elephante Poses, and Diva



Dress: Amarelo Manga - Dress Thara (New)
Hair: - D!va Kalli2 (New)
Bracelet: - Gizza Odyssey Watch and Bracelet


Skin: -  Glam Affair - Zara - America

Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:- Glam Affair- Starlett Lashes Black

Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: - Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Casual

Pose: - Let it Go - by Elephante Poses (New)

I bring to you our destination for today:-




Destination: Forest spring concert Mini Event and Woodland Treasures Gacha



Dress: Glow Designs:. Spring Breeze Frill Dress


Skin: -  Glam Affair - Zara - America

Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:- Glam Affair- Starlett Lashes Black

Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: - Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Casual
Birds: - 8f8 - Vintage Birds from Forest Spring Concert Mini Event (8f8)
Mr *BoOgErS*:- from Woodland Treasures Gacha

For someone that I know and care about,  this song is for you Tony. <3

Lately I been, I been losing sleep, Dreaming about the things that we could be...
I see this life like a swinging vine, Swing my heart across the line,
In my face is flashing signs, Seek it out and ye shall find

Old, but I'm not that old, Young, but I'm not that bold
And I don't think the world is sold I'm just doing what we're told

I... feel something so right by doing the wrong thing,
I... feel something so wrong by doing the right thing
I couldn't lie, couldn't lie, couldn't lie
Everything that kills me makes me feel alive.


Wearing a fabulous new outfit from LivGlam called Acid Queen, now available for only $99L exclusively at Steals and Deals today.




I bring to you our destination,


Destination: LivGlam



Dress: [LG] Boutique - [ SPRING14] Acid Queen 1 (New) Now at Steals and Deals (only $99L)

Hair: - Dura-Boys&Girls 47(Blonde)


Skin: -  Glam Affair - Zara - America

Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:- Glam Affair- Starlett Lashes Black
Eyeshadow: [KoKoLoReS] BP - Smokey Glitter Eyeshadows
Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: - Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Casual


Pose: - Bauhaus  Movement - 37 Stitches

This is in memory and dedication to Eliza <3

I am quite excited but also saddened to tell you this. One of my talented friends who was working behind the scenes on the soon to be released movie called Pompeii which goes live February 21st was one of the specialist clothes designers for this amazing movie. 

In appreciation for her dedication and hard backbreaking work similar to our designers in Secondlife, I thought this elegant and sweet party dress from Indyra Originals suited the theme I was trying to create for you today.

Taken at the amazing new sim called Imagination at Guana Cay




I bring to you our destination for today.


Destination: Indrya Originals



Dress: {Indyra} Meringue Party Dress (New) 
Head Accessory: - *SoliDea FoliEs* Devine Dream
Hair: -TRUTH HAIR Lolita
Necklace: Indy&Co.: Chablis Necklace-Gold (New)
Shoes: Helena - REDGRAVE
Skin: -  Glam Affair - Zara - America

Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:- Glam Affair- Starlett Lashes Black
Eyeshadow: ::Modish:: Miana Eyeshadows
Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: - Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Casual



Pose: - Bauhaus Movement - Sid

Bringing to you the new designs straight from the Fiera Spring Fashion Fair, I am wearing this desirable dress that dreams were made of, the stunning styles of Lybra called 'Rouge'.
Fiera Spring Fashion Festival is a must visit visit along with the new styles of L'Accessoires on now.

 Bringing to you the destinations for today:-


Destination: Lybra and L'Accessoires


Outfit: !:Lybra:! Rouge (New) from Fiera Spring Fashion Fair
Head Accessory: - *LODE* Orchkakis [black_violet] (New) from L'Accessoires
Hair: - Magika [Hair] Such (Black)
Necklace: Pure Poison - Reigna Necklace - Silver (New) from L'Accesoires
Skin: -  Glam Affair - Zara - America

Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:- Glam Affair- Starlett Lashes Black
Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: - Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Casual
Ring: - Baiastice Treai-silver-ring

Pose: -  *ES* Sassy

Wearing the beautiful new designs from AFI Designs called 'Sassy' available now. I bring to you the destination for today:-

Destination: AFI Designs


Outfit: AFI Designs Sassy Outfit (New)
Headband: - Alchemy - Blossom Headband (New) from Chapter Four
Hair: -  TRUTH HAIR Perla (New)
Necklace: Pure Poison - Gaby Necklace (New)
Skin: -  Glam Affair - Zara - America

Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:-.::WoW::. Diva Lashes
Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: -Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Casual


Pose: -  Bauhaus Movement -  Bunnies I

The world shows and gives us many different images of happiness, buy this, go here, do this, etc. but if we are constantly searching for external happiness how do you know when you have found it?

I personally prefer to find happiness within me, in my experience this is me standing in my power.
This is me in love,  but am I happy? I think there are moments in life that we are truly happy. Sometimes our memories make us smile and happiness does exist. But how do you know when you are happy, or must someone tell you and educate you about it?  Can you desire happiness, like you desire a pair of shoes?  These are questions I ask myself all the time.  Happiness is finding the contentment inside of you. Feeling love with yourself, others, friends and family. 
Happiness though requires complete honesty about who you are and what you are wanting in life.

So I say to myself, when exploring the vast lands of Secondlife. Let it go, just be yourself and love what you are here for and the adventures that it brings. Don't be saddened if you can't find that loved one. Enjoy and experience what it has to offer.

Wearing the stunning and delicate designs of Gizza from the Fiera Saviad Spring Fashion Fair on now. I bring to you the destination for today:-



Destination: Fiera Spring Fashion Fair 


Outfit:  - GizzA - Lolita Dress [Beige] (New from Fiera Saviad Spring Fashion Fair)
Hair: - TRUTH HAIR Harriet -  light blondes (New)
Necklace: Cae :: Into The Woods :: Collection 


Skin: - Glam Affair - Zara - America

Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:-.::WoW::. Diva Lashes
Lips: - Glam Affair - Romy - Lips Gloss
Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: -Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Casual

Pose: - (Wicca's Wardrobe) WW - Big Hat Fun 005 (New from Saviad Spring Fashion Fair)

It's an amazing time in Secondlife at the moment especially for us bloggers. So many events to cover, and such beautiful and captivating designs available for you all.  Two special events on at the moment are the Saviad Spring Fashion Fair which opened today and the Skin Fair 2014 which has so many many options available for men and women.

Wearing the seductive designs of Elysium from the Saviad Spring Fashion Fair with matching shoes, and the gorgeous new skin from Clef de Peau called Jemma from the Skin Fair 2014,

I bring to you our destinations for today:-








Destination: Fiera Spring Fashion Fair and Skin Fair 2014


Outfit: Elysium - Vega short jumpsuit - brown (New from Fiera Saviad Spring Fashion Fair)

Hair: -  TRUTH HAIR Rowan
Necklace: Legal Insanity - puzzle necklace for girls - silver (New) 
Shoes: - Elysium - Oona sandal heel - brown (New from Fiera Saviad Spring Fashion Fair)
Feet: - JD - MyFeet - Tip Toe

Skin: - Clef de Peau:Jemma (New) for Skin Fair 2014


Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:-.::WoW::. Diva Lashes
Lips: - Glam Affair - Romy - Lips Gloss

Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: -Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Casual

Pose: - AGM - Saviad Exclusive 1 (New from the Fiera Saviad Spring Fashion Fair)

It wasn't always wrong, But I've never known a winter so cold,
Now I don't warm my hands in your coat.
But I still hope.  I know you care, I know it is always been there
But there's trouble ahead, I can feel it.
You are just saving yourself where you hide it.

Yeah, I know you care, I see it in the way you stare,
As if there was trouble ahead and you knew it.
I'll be saving myself from the ruin,
And I know you care.




Wearing one of the most beautifully and carefully crafted skins in Secondlife, hand drawn from the amazing creator of Tokyo Girl, I bring to you a destination opening soon, and that is:-

Destination: Skin Fair 2014 (Opening Midnight tonight)


Dress: [LG] Boutique-[ W14] Meet Me Halfway (New)


Hair: - TRUTH HAIR Lolita -  blondes (New)

Skin: - Tokyo.Girl Skin Hestia . Sunkissed (New) for Skin Fair 2014


Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:-.::WoW::. Diva Lashes

Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: -Slink Av Enhance Hands Female - Elegant

Wearing the stunning low cut dress from LivGlam called the Audrey Caroline Dress I bring to you today the gorgeous new destination - LivGlam.

Destination: LivGlam (New Store)


Dress: [LG] Boutique-[Summer 13] Audrey Caroline Dress (New) only $55L


Hair: - LoQ Hair Ale Dark Brown (New)

Skin: - Glam Affair - Vera - America 02
Lips: - Eyelure Naturally Parted Lips

Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:-.::WoW::. Diva Lashes

Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: - Slink Avatar Enhancement Hand Casual 

These beautiful Sunflowers that I found at the Arcade Gacha made me think think that beauty does not last forever. We all have a Circle of Life.  The Circle of Life can be defined as nature's way of taking and giving back life to the earth.  It symbolizes the universe being sacred and divine. It represents the infinite nature of energy, meaning if something dies it gives new life to another.

 A friend of mine almost came close to making a decision the other day if there animal was not going to recover from it's illness. This illness is a horrendous cat flu, and the many questions that were asked apart from pray for my little friend, was also I don't think I could make that inevitable decision if my cat does not get better.

The topic of Euthanasia is one that not many people want to discuss. Apart from the obvious letting go of something that has been in your life for sometimes up to an 1/8th of your life in the case of my friend's cat. To lose them and never see them again is what becomes unbearable. I said to this friend, your heartache and your pain will fade eventually, You will miss them dreadfully, however you would not like them to be in pain, and could never bear their suffering.  Whilst we all prayed this friend's cat is recovering, however there is a Circle of Life, and one day whilst we never want to think about it, life does give way for new beginnings.





Wearing the beautiful new designs from Gabriel from the Mens Department (TMD), the cute dress from Sassy, and the awesome poses from Bauhaus Movement, I bring to you our destinations for today:-

Destination: The Mens Department, Sassy, Gabriel, and Lark


Dress: ~Sassy!~ Addiction dress - denim (New)
Jacket: - ::GB::Vintage denim jacket (New) from TMD

Hair: -TRUTH HAIR Gaia

Skin: - -Belleza- Med HB Blonde (rare) (New) from Arcade Gacha

Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:-.::WoW::. Diva Lashes

Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: - Slink Avatar Enhancement Hand Casual 
Basket: - Lark - Sunflowers (New) from Arcade Gacha
Pose: - Bauhaus Movement -  Velvetground

What I love to do better than nothing else is to go outside and escape for a few hours with friends of family on a getaway picnic. We all have this inbuilt excitement in all of us if we can find that new picnic place to share. Sometimes it might be a couple of hours drive, but when we all get there, the daughters and wives, prepare the lunch, the fellas kick the ball around with their kids, and well me I prefer to run to the car, throw out the rugs, grab the stuff that I was told to get and then start chasing the kids around trying to get the ball. 

I'm not much of a picnic lunch organiser you see. I get told what to bring. Like constantly reminded, bring the rolls, make sure there are 12, don't forget the margarine, bring some wine and make sure you have some cups. The list is never ending...

However though, I love the feeling of getting together with the family, friends and watching the children grow up. Am sure the kicking of the ball will maybe stop one day but what the heck, it is what I look forward to when going on a picnic.

When have you been on a picnic last?




Destination: E-Clipse, Elephante Poses, MishMish and Truth


Top: :: E-Clipse ThessSweater v1 (New)
Shorts: - E-Clipse Shorts Mare (New)

Hair: - TRUTH HAIR Haters -  blondes (New)

Skin: - Glam Affair - Vera - America 02

Eyes: - IKON Spectral Eyes - Evening
Eyelashes:-.::WoW::. Diva Lashes

Cheeks: - {Dead Apples} Tintable 
Hands: - Slink Avatar Enhancement Hand Casual 
Basket: - *MishMish* Mouse on Basket - Light Tea (New)
Pose: - Elephante Poses - Elizabeth #3 (New)